ever tot of how a man has an affair outside?

why would he do that? what does he feel towards his wife? how does he do all those without feeling the guilt?

my fren said,

"i married a woman, who wasnt the woman i tot i married."

wad does he mean?

well.. gf and wife - two different things. gf is all lovey dovey, being sweet and caring with the "i-love-you-deep-deep-long-long"..

but when she becomes THE WIFE, she will go "hey, we're MARRIED.. there's no need for the effort to do those stuff anymore."

and he was gg, dun you say that you will not be like that in the future. pple always go into self-denial when it comes to exposing the not-so-good future..

but i know exactly how that happened and that it will definitely happen for lotsa gals out there, esp in sg. singaporeans are just not THAT romantic to stay in LURVE~




but so what if she became someone you didnt wish for? is that the reason why you look for other gals, to experience that bgr feeling again?

or issit cos you feel lonely and justified?





somehow, i pity such men.. and sometimes i find these men utterly disgusting.

depends on how hansum he is, or how related he is to me :D


i dunno, i can identify with situations of extra-marital affair cos i've experienced it. i've met married men, divorced ones, etc.. including my father, that is.





dunno la. just caught in between. should i condemn such men? i think not.

cos it's actually understandable that dicks want to fuck multiple pussies, and pussies wanna get screwed by multiple dicks. that's primal instinct. but social norms make it sound unholy. that's all.