yesterday morning, we broke up. cos he missed his ex too much.
im fine, i encouraged to go for the gal who broke his heart..
anyway, we arent meant to be together.. our lifestyles clash. he's nocturnal, i become panda after sleeping later than 12am.. he's insomniac, i love sleep. he's a smoker, i dun like smoke.
HAIYA, FORGET IT LA. IT DIDNT REALLY START ANYWAY.
29 July 2007
You might agree withit, but when it actually happens
96% of girls dont realize it 'til it is too late and that guy who did it is so frustrated that he has moved on to someone who will take notice.
From a guys point of view:
We don't care if you talk to other guys.
We don't care if you're friends with other guys.
But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.
It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.
We don't care if a guy calls you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned.
Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait till the morning.
Also, when we tell you you're pretty/beautiful/ gorgeous/cute/stunning, we freaking mean it.
Don't tell us we're wrong.
We'll stop trying to convince you.
One of the sexiest thing about a girl is her confidence.
Yeah, you can quote me.
Don't be mad when we hold the door open.
Take Advantage of the mood i'm in.
let us pay for you!
dont "feel bad"about it
We enjoy doing it.
It's expected.
Smile and say "thank you."
Kiss us when no one's watching.
If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed.
You don't have to get dressed up for us.
If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.
We like you for who you are and not what you are.
honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's.
or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up
Don't take everything we say seriously.
Sarcasm is a beautiful thing.
See the beauty in it.
Don't get angry easily.
Stop using magazines/media as your bible.
Don't talk about how hott Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us.
It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that.
Whatever happened to the word"handsome"/"beautiful"
Girls, I cannot stress this enough:
ifyou aren't being treated right by a guy,
don't wait for him to change.
ditch him.
sorry, disgrace to the male population ass and find someone who will treat you with utter respect.
And first dates wont be the best.
It takes time to get comfortable with that certain girl.
So, girls give us some time.
Someone who will honor your morals.
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.
Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.
Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel, or what you do.
Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes....
and say"i love you"..
and actually mean it.
Give the nice guys a chance.
96% of girls dont realize it 'til it is too late and that guy who did it is so frustrated that he has moved on to someone who will take notice.
From a guys point of view:
We don't care if you talk to other guys.
We don't care if you're friends with other guys.
But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.
It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.
We don't care if a guy calls you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned.
Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait till the morning.
Also, when we tell you you're pretty/beautiful/ gorgeous/cute/stunning, we freaking mean it.
Don't tell us we're wrong.
We'll stop trying to convince you.
One of the sexiest thing about a girl is her confidence.
Yeah, you can quote me.
Don't be mad when we hold the door open.
Take Advantage of the mood i'm in.
let us pay for you!
dont "feel bad"about it
We enjoy doing it.
It's expected.
Smile and say "thank you."
Kiss us when no one's watching.
If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed.
You don't have to get dressed up for us.
If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.
We like you for who you are and not what you are.
honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's.
or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up
Don't take everything we say seriously.
Sarcasm is a beautiful thing.
See the beauty in it.
Don't get angry easily.
Stop using magazines/media as your bible.
Don't talk about how hott Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us.
It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that.
Whatever happened to the word"handsome"/"beautiful"
Girls, I cannot stress this enough:
ifyou aren't being treated right by a guy,
don't wait for him to change.
ditch him.
sorry, disgrace to the male population ass and find someone who will treat you with utter respect.
And first dates wont be the best.
It takes time to get comfortable with that certain girl.
So, girls give us some time.
Someone who will honor your morals.
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.
Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.
Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel, or what you do.
Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes....
and say"i love you"..
and actually mean it.
Give the nice guys a chance.
yes skool is starting tmw. yes there is the welcome and enrolment session at 1030. yes i will have my first lecture at SIM at 1400 to 1700.
on 27th july, i met max aka haiping after getting to know him online. budden he dun like me to call him haiping, so im stuck with max~ and he's a heavy smoker, has suffered a major heartbreak from his previous breakup with his ex, suffering from insomnia, has skin problems, his family is experiencing a financial crisis, 23-yr-old, goes pubbing at stanley's pub @ lavender, has 2 god sisters: priscilla and gladys, etc etc..
and he asked me to be his gf. WEIRD RITE?
even more weird is, I SAID YES, even though i never met him before and vice versa.
somehow, 我的耳根软 so i cant bring myself to say "no" for long~
and i know that he's looking for someone to be the substitute for his ex and to soothe his pain. i dun mind being a substitute as long as i can help him, that's wad think. and when we were on the phone [for 1 hr for the 1st time, den 2hrs for the 2nd time], we really toked sia.. i no tok to a guy for so long on the phone before sia~
and i know from the start that i want the best for him.
i want him to stop smoking cos it's not good for both of us.
i want him to forget his ex so that he can move on.
i want him to know that i dun mind that his skins has sores and that i want to be the one applying the medicinal cream for him.
i want him to know that when he slept on my lap, i wanted to take away his pain and i was willing to suffer in his place.
i want him to know that i love it when he holds my hand and that my heart raced and i couldnt breathe properly whenever we touched.
i want him to know that i wanted to kiss his forehead and his lips looked delectable when he was asleep on my lap.
i want him to know that i dun mind his ah beng behaviours as long as he can practice self control.
i want him to know that i like his frens.
i want him to know that wadeva he does, as long as i deem it correct, i will support him.
i want him to know wad i like as well:
i like to be sent home cos i nv like gg home alone.
i like to be hugged cos i see hugging as a luxury, smth i was rarely given.
i like to hug and i would like to hug his arm on the bus, mrt, when we're seated.
i like to be taken care of.
oh yar, i didnt let you guys know.. i met him at close to 9pm on friday nite after he was dismissed from work, went for a haircut and bathed. we sat bus no.61 from bukit batok to lavender cos he wanted to let me sleep while on the way to pubbing.. well, i'd been awake since 6am that day and i slept at 1.30am the nite before bcos of him. budden i couldnt sleep cos he was there~ so ended up we chatted a lil, watched other passengers, etc.. he was 174cm, has a tummy.. veri cute! he can be my winnie the pooh worh~ and he told me that i dun look that short and that im not that fat.. make me veri happy~
when we reached lavender, he couldnt take it and had to smoke.. well, he needed it and i was in no position to stop him.. but he veri kindly let out the smoke skywards so that i wont get the smoke at full-blast..
at the pub, he introduced me to 5 of his frens: priscilla, gladys, ken, jacky [oh yar, max's idol is jacky wu.... i like jacky wu oso!!], stephen..
and max loves music. he loves to sing chinese pop songs, so he karaoked at the pub... at around 1am, we left the pub and walked around to find a coffeeshop since everybody [besides me] was hungry.. by the time we finished and reached priscilla's hse to play cards, it was oredi 5am.. we played cards and drank a huge bottle of martel... we finished around 3/4 of it sia.... budden given my body system, wadever alcohol i drink ends up as urine sia so i wasnt drunk.. priscilla and me didnt really get drunk cos we kept winning poker and the guys had to drink a lot~ haha.. in the end, jacky downed and max was downing oso..
didnt get to sleep until 9am... budden i woke up at 12 cos im not used to sleeping thru the day.. the rest slept till around 5pm.. so while waiting for them to wake up, i watched a tvb drama serial with priscilla's mother~ diao~~ the show veri nice!!! and it's a gambling show... so i like even more! haha
around 7.30pm, they finally were willing to leave the hse and let priscilla handle her grumbling tummy.. budden i had to rush home cos i was worried that my mama will be worried abt me..
and no choice, i had to major deduct points for max laogong.. he didnt bother to sms or call me to ask if i reached home... GRRRRrrrr.... and one of my frens tested him via friendster, max laogong kinda failed that test..... another 10 points deducted!
haha~~ dun worry, i gave him 200 points to start with~ or should i give more??
oh yar, and he didnt want our relationship to be made known to his frens yet.. so we held hands onli when no one was watching, and he released immediately when someone was abt to notice.. budden i dun mind this secrecy, so im cool abt it. i cant imagine the shock on his frens' face if they ever know that im max's gf~~
cos he's still trying to get over his ex.
on 27th july, i met max aka haiping after getting to know him online. budden he dun like me to call him haiping, so im stuck with max~ and he's a heavy smoker, has suffered a major heartbreak from his previous breakup with his ex, suffering from insomnia, has skin problems, his family is experiencing a financial crisis, 23-yr-old, goes pubbing at stanley's pub @ lavender, has 2 god sisters: priscilla and gladys, etc etc..
and he asked me to be his gf. WEIRD RITE?
even more weird is, I SAID YES, even though i never met him before and vice versa.
somehow, 我的耳根软 so i cant bring myself to say "no" for long~
and i know that he's looking for someone to be the substitute for his ex and to soothe his pain. i dun mind being a substitute as long as i can help him, that's wad think. and when we were on the phone [for 1 hr for the 1st time, den 2hrs for the 2nd time], we really toked sia.. i no tok to a guy for so long on the phone before sia~
and i know from the start that i want the best for him.
i want him to stop smoking cos it's not good for both of us.
i want him to forget his ex so that he can move on.
i want him to know that i dun mind that his skins has sores and that i want to be the one applying the medicinal cream for him.
i want him to know that when he slept on my lap, i wanted to take away his pain and i was willing to suffer in his place.
i want him to know that i love it when he holds my hand and that my heart raced and i couldnt breathe properly whenever we touched.
i want him to know that i wanted to kiss his forehead and his lips looked delectable when he was asleep on my lap.
i want him to know that i dun mind his ah beng behaviours as long as he can practice self control.
i want him to know that i like his frens.
i want him to know that wadeva he does, as long as i deem it correct, i will support him.
i want him to know wad i like as well:
i like to be sent home cos i nv like gg home alone.
i like to be hugged cos i see hugging as a luxury, smth i was rarely given.
i like to hug and i would like to hug his arm on the bus, mrt, when we're seated.
i like to be taken care of.
oh yar, i didnt let you guys know.. i met him at close to 9pm on friday nite after he was dismissed from work, went for a haircut and bathed. we sat bus no.61 from bukit batok to lavender cos he wanted to let me sleep while on the way to pubbing.. well, i'd been awake since 6am that day and i slept at 1.30am the nite before bcos of him. budden i couldnt sleep cos he was there~ so ended up we chatted a lil, watched other passengers, etc.. he was 174cm, has a tummy.. veri cute! he can be my winnie the pooh worh~ and he told me that i dun look that short and that im not that fat.. make me veri happy~
when we reached lavender, he couldnt take it and had to smoke.. well, he needed it and i was in no position to stop him.. but he veri kindly let out the smoke skywards so that i wont get the smoke at full-blast..
at the pub, he introduced me to 5 of his frens: priscilla, gladys, ken, jacky [oh yar, max's idol is jacky wu.... i like jacky wu oso!!], stephen..
and max loves music. he loves to sing chinese pop songs, so he karaoked at the pub... at around 1am, we left the pub and walked around to find a coffeeshop since everybody [besides me] was hungry.. by the time we finished and reached priscilla's hse to play cards, it was oredi 5am.. we played cards and drank a huge bottle of martel... we finished around 3/4 of it sia.... budden given my body system, wadever alcohol i drink ends up as urine sia so i wasnt drunk.. priscilla and me didnt really get drunk cos we kept winning poker and the guys had to drink a lot~ haha.. in the end, jacky downed and max was downing oso..
didnt get to sleep until 9am... budden i woke up at 12 cos im not used to sleeping thru the day.. the rest slept till around 5pm.. so while waiting for them to wake up, i watched a tvb drama serial with priscilla's mother~ diao~~ the show veri nice!!! and it's a gambling show... so i like even more! haha
around 7.30pm, they finally were willing to leave the hse and let priscilla handle her grumbling tummy.. budden i had to rush home cos i was worried that my mama will be worried abt me..
and no choice, i had to major deduct points for max laogong.. he didnt bother to sms or call me to ask if i reached home... GRRRRrrrr.... and one of my frens tested him via friendster, max laogong kinda failed that test..... another 10 points deducted!
haha~~ dun worry, i gave him 200 points to start with~ or should i give more??
oh yar, and he didnt want our relationship to be made known to his frens yet.. so we held hands onli when no one was watching, and he released immediately when someone was abt to notice.. budden i dun mind this secrecy, so im cool abt it. i cant imagine the shock on his frens' face if they ever know that im max's gf~~
cos he's still trying to get over his ex.
26 July 2007
20 July 2007
oh! yar i forgot to blog abt today~
today i went to the cheers at chinese garden mrt station and i saw this cutie at the cashier counter!! and he's sooooo cute!! and i saw that his eyes actually lit up when he saw me.. most prob cos he was bored and that there was this bunch of kiddy boys hovering around the store~
and when i finally went to pay for my jasmine green tea, his eyes opened again! and he smiled so shyly!
omg, i think im imagining things. but i shall go visit cheers tmw at the same time again.. yea! maybe can get his number!
yea, im a desperado~
today i went to the cheers at chinese garden mrt station and i saw this cutie at the cashier counter!! and he's sooooo cute!! and i saw that his eyes actually lit up when he saw me.. most prob cos he was bored and that there was this bunch of kiddy boys hovering around the store~
and when i finally went to pay for my jasmine green tea, his eyes opened again! and he smiled so shyly!
omg, i think im imagining things. but i shall go visit cheers tmw at the same time again.. yea! maybe can get his number!
yea, im a desperado~
nonono, i so dun wanna blog abt the hk trip.. until now, im still zonked out by the whole thing.. and i sooooo miss the bedtimes stories from sheryl and june, miss the pleasant receptionists, miss being lost in hk, miss taking the mtr, miss everything!!
and i come home and face my mama's nagging and black face, and tantrums.. HAI~ but i shall continue to tahan. haha~ budden i still missed my mama~
and i posted many many pics on dotphoto.com, but not all.. too many oredi until i lost track of wad i had posted and wad not. HAI~
and i come home and face my mama's nagging and black face, and tantrums.. HAI~ but i shall continue to tahan. haha~ budden i still missed my mama~
and i posted many many pics on dotphoto.com, but not all.. too many oredi until i lost track of wad i had posted and wad not. HAI~
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